She was too busy freaking out about what to do and thus wasn't actually dealing with the situation. Looking up her options was the only way in which I could contribute and thus help her through everything. It's not patronizing, it's being a good boyfriend.
I broke it down into three catagories: 1.Keep it, raise it. 2.Keep it, give it up for adoption. 3.Abortion.
There's an issue of time with all three because if we were going ot keep it, she needed to get started on pre-natal care, etc. And if she decided to get an abortion it was better for us to do it before she crossed from the period of time where it's a pill vs the period of time where it's a vacuum.
Forced labour? How is saying, "I want us to have a baby, what do you think?" forced labour? It's like you're going out of your way to swing for the fences here.
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Date: 2007-08-04 08:15 pm (UTC)I broke it down into three catagories:
1.Keep it, raise it.
2.Keep it, give it up for adoption.
3.Abortion.
There's an issue of time with all three because if we were going ot keep it, she needed to get started on pre-natal care, etc. And if she decided to get an abortion it was better for us to do it before she crossed from the period of time where it's a pill vs the period of time where it's a vacuum.
Forced labour? How is saying, "I want us to have a baby, what do you think?" forced labour? It's like you're going out of your way to swing for the fences here.